Wednesday, November 18, 2015

Reuniting with the Orphans

This fall I reunited with the orphans and their caretaker Ester for the first time since leaving Uganda over five years ago. We speak frequently, but seeing each other after so long was thrilling for all of us. The three remaining girls in the program - Beatrice, Sylvia, and Rachel - were happy to tell me in person about their school, friends, and dreams.

 


One thing Ester and I wanted to do while I was there was buy the orphans supplies for their upcoming semester in boarding school. As part of attending boarding school, the children must come with everything they need for the semester. This includes paper, pens, and other schools supplies. They also need to have their daily necessities, such as toilet paper, mosquito nets, and bedding. Ester has to buy these supplies for each of the orphans three times a year before each semester.

Ester and I went to several stores to get everything the orphans needed. In fact, we got so many supplies that we loaded up two boda bodas (motorcycles) after just one stop at a local store. The young men driving the bodas were a little amused seeing an American with bags of school supplies in the middle of Uganda, speaking to them in Luganda. (Yes! I actually remember the language!)

Once we got home, Ester handed out the supplies to each of the girls. Beaming, the girls filled up their metal back-to-school trunks, excited about their last semester in this grade. They are very grateful to be returning to school. They know that their schooling, school supplies, rent, and everything else they own is entirely bought with donations I collect from friends in America.

Beatrice, Sylvia, and Rachel

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Beatrice, the eldest girl, is studying hard to one day be a teacher. Beatrice is a workhorse, cleaning and cooking for her younger siblings - always with a smile on her face - and being an all-around enormous help to Ester, who now has three of her own children. Sylvia, the middle sister, hopes to eventually follow in her sister's footsteps and become a teacher when she grows up. Just as I remembered her to be, Sylvia is the tenderhearted one in the family. She is a little shy, but very sweet and nurturing to the younger kids in the neighborhood. Rachel, the "baby" of the family, is now nine years old and wants to be a nurse eventually. Although the youngest of the three girls, she is - as ever - the most animated and fearless.

Richard, the girls' only brother, is turning nineteen soon. He decided a few weeks before my arrival that he was ready to end his studies, and has accepted a job in another part of the country. Unfortunately I did not see him while I was there, but I understand that he is enjoying working for a mechanic and that his leg is still strong and healthy.


The girls were as grateful as ever to get their school supplies, but they were over the moon about the gifts I brought them. Before I left to visit them, many of you donated clothes, accessories, toys, and art supplies for me to bring them. I ended up with three suitcases filled with everything from candies and nail polish and balls, to stickers and pens and books, to shoes, track suits, and dresses - and more! These are cherished gifts that they would never have enjoyed if it weren't for your generosity.

During our visit, we also took the orphans, Ester, and her children on a couple of local sight-seeing trips. The kids got to see the source of the River Nile at Lake Victoria. We hired a private car to travel the short distance from their town of Lugazi to Jinja, Once we were at the river, we got into a small boat to take us the quick trip from the shore. This alone was a big deal: getting in a car, and then getting into a boat. The girls were a little nervous about the boat at first, but quickly got used to gliding over the water. The guide explained the local birds and plants as we cruised toward the nexus of the lake's end and the river's beginning. When the guide pointed to the gurgling water, saying that it was an underwater spring and considered the source of the great river, Beatrice broke out in a massive smile. In African culture there is a great deal of allegiance to where you are from, and she was clearly very proud to see something so powerful and important near her home. 
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The kids also loved seeing the Mabira Forest. This forest is only a ten minute drive from their town, but they had never been before. A guide took us on a nature walk and taught us about the wide variety of plants, many of which serve important functions within the community. Some plants are made into medications, while others into goods like paper or matting. The kids also got to see some rare birds and heard, but unfortunately did not spot, some of the rain forest's monkeys. 
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Returning to see the children was as surreal and moving an experience as I could have imagined it to be. In most ways, the children's lives and the town they live in is amazingly similar to how I remember it over 5 years ago. The girls are just bigger now, more mature, and speak better English. At first I found it a little strange to go back and see just how little has changed, but I quickly realized that this was a very good thing. The girls are as happy and healthy as I remember them to be. Ester is doing a tremendous job taking care of them. It is heartwarming to see how they have grown and to imagine where they will be as they continue down their paths. It is also a major accomplishment that our work has saved Richard's leg and has given him the schooling and tools he needs to be a successful adult.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you again for your support. It has allowed these children to live joyful lives, and they look forward to promising futures.
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Front right to left: Peanut, Jill, Ester and her son Jayden
Middle right to left: Sylvia, Rachel, me and Mike
Back right to left: Ester's stepmother, Carol, Beatrice, Ester's nephew, father and brother


Before and after pictures.... The first photo in each before and after set below is from the day we found them in the village in June 2009. The second photo is from September 2015, after we have been caring for the orphans for over 6 years.

The three orphans
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Sylvia
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Rachel
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Beatrice
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